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Saturday, February 17, 2018

Blog evaluation... your feedback appreciated! :)


Hello all, I hope you’re having a lovely Saturday!

I’ve been doing some thinking recently (spinning ideas really) on what the blog here should be/new directions I’d like to go and wanted to run them past you all for starters. (And I just had the brilliant idea of using bullet points!)
 
So. Without more ado, let’s do this.

  • First off, I want to write about the little, minute, and gigantic, sprawling, incredible things of life. The underside that makes the stories happen. The real Stuff of Life. Real, but not overtly raw -- at least in the introspective/wistful sense (and unless life itself happens to be particularly raw at a given time). Though, perhaps yes, on second thought, raw might be a good description. Playing around with words -- crafting magic. Thinking on deep things.
  • I’m determined and excited about just going for it and jumping into my new story this year (so… on the flip side, don’t want to take away too much valuable word hashing time from that).
  • My brain’s absorbed with the thrilling topics of clearing out sheds and lean-to’s, exciting summer travel plans, and wanting to concentrate on making some yummy (and consistent!) dinners with my new little helper. 


  • I have a kitchen full of dishes to wash; and also Amazon returns in my living room to box up (mostly different tops I was trying out, some of which were winners and some of which I’m taking advantage of Amazon’s splendid free returns option with -- one of my favorite things ever! ;)). And the floor could probably use a proactive sweeping. But I’m holding a darling, snoring little baby and the washer’s happily churning away with laundry -- so yay! (P.S. I guess this point could be titled 'The Daily Things'.)
  • Per the above, I’d like to expand into some fashion/style exploration
  • I'm thinking of keeping posts shorter (so as not to delay posting for eons, etc). What about some short, snappy book reviews? And definitely longer movie reviews, but when I have the time to give them proper attention.
  • I’ve had an author blog in the past and was debating about the practicality of trying to start it back up, when moi sister recently suggested I should combine the two into one place here. Meaning principally the Inklings link-up back(!), and possibly Quotes of the Month, and an interview now and again.

 

So there we have it! What do you all think? Are any of the above topics things you’d be interested in? Let me know -- I’d love to hear what you’d like to read more about!


Wednesday, March 15, 2017

Book Review // Belle by Cameron Dokey


"My mother sat beside Papa, an arm around his waist as if to shore him up. "Drink your tea, Roger," she urged in a soft, firm voice. "You got caught in that rain squall this morning, didn't you? The tea will warm you up." My father took a sip, obediently, like a child. "I'm sorry to be such trouble," he said. "Papa," I said, shocked. "How can you talk so? We love you. How can anything we do for you trouble us?" The mug of tea slipped from my father's fingers, then bounced off the tabletop and smashed on the floor. Hot liquid and broken crockery shot every which way. None of us moved or made a sound. Our attention was riveted on my father's face, on the tortured expression in his eyes as they stared into mine. "Belle," my father said hoarsely, and I felt the hairs on the back of my neck rise at his tone. "Ma petite Belle. I wonder if you will say that when you know what I have done." (excerpt)


"Belle is convinced she has the wrong name, as she lacks her sisters' awe-inspiring beauty. So she withdraws from society, devoting her time to wood carving. Secretly, Belle longs to find the fabled Heartwood Tree. If carved by the right hands, the Heartwood will reveal the face of one's true love.

"During a fierce storm, Belle's father stumbles upon the mysterious Heartwood -- and encounters a terrifying and lonely Beast. Now Belle must carve the Heartwood to save her father, and learn to see not with the eyes of her mind, but with the eyes of her heart." (summary)


I read this book all in one sitting early this week and quite relished it. Well over half the book actually takes place well before the Beast ever enters in, but for all that, it included some of my favorite parts. I really enjoyed Dokey's spin on Belle's family: with the caring parents and the realistic relationship between the sisters -- bickering sometimes, but genuinely loving one another hard even in the toughest times.


Her descriptions are delicious, and round various little twists in the story there are unexpected quips or turns of phrase that catch you by surprise with sheer delight.

I also love how she chose to portray the Beast... Leaving his appearance definite yet shrouded in mystery, since Belle honestly can't look him in the face *SPOILERS* till the end. ;) My one caveat is that the story does wrap up rather quickly after that happens, but it's yet all so rich and refreshing and delightfully charming, that it quite makes up for it.


In the end -- fresh with the wind off the sea and spring rain on green hills and the light of stars in the water -- and a heroine who will dare anything for those she loves -- it's thoroughly enjoyable and altogether lovely!

Tell me! Have you read Belle? Or any other books by Cameron Dokey?


(Reviewed for Meredith's Beauty & The Beast Week and also my first book read and reviewed for the ARC.)


Saturday, February 18, 2017

Strength & Beauty in Austen

Looking at Austen’s six major novels, the differences and yet similarities are stunning. And when we come to her heroines those similarity differences are absolutely fascinating.


First off, Austen often seems reticent when it comes to physical descriptions, but I think, in the end, she actually delineates her heroines perfectly, deftly capturing both their inner and outer beauty. There are really so many snippets it’s astounding, so in the following I shall confine myself to a pointed few.


From Pride and Prejudice: "Mr. Darcy had at first scarcely allowed her (Lizzy) to be pretty; he had looked at her without admiration at the ball; and when they next met, he looked at her only to criticize. But no sooner had he made it clear to himself and his friends that she had hardly a good feature in her face than he began to find it was rendered uncommonly intelligent by the beautiful expression of her dark eyes. To this discovery succeeded some others equally mortifying. Though he had detected with a critical eye more than one failure of perfect symmetry in her form, he was forced to acknowledge her figure to be light and pleasing; and in spite of his asserting her manners were not those of the fashionable world, he was caught by their easy playfulness."


And of course there is good, sweet, loving Jane whom everyone considers beautiful inside and out.


From Sense and Sensibility: “(Elinor) had a delicate complexion, regular features and a remarkably pretty figure. Marianne was still handsomer. Her form, though not so correct as her sister’s, in having the advantage of height, was more striking; and her face was so lovely, that when in the common cant of praise she was called a beautiful girl, truth was less violently outraged than usually happens. Her skin was very brown, but from its transparency, her complexion was uncommonly brilliant; her features were all good; her smile was sweet and attractive, and in her eyes, which were very dark, there was a life, a spirit, an eagerness which could hardly be seen without delight.”



Anne in Persuasion has “an elegance of mind and sweetness of character, which must have placed her high with any people of real understanding…” Regarding her love story: “He (Wentworth) was, at that time, a remarkably fine young man, with a great deal of intelligence, spirit and brilliancy; and Anne an extremely pretty girl, with gentleness, modesty, taste, and feeling.” When she arrives in Bath -- just beginning to taste happiness again -- her gracious, gentle spirit shines radiantly through, beautifying her entire being. Even her father notices it; and Wentworth can’t look away.


And we have this glowing description of Emma in an early conversation between Mr. Knightley and Mrs. Weston: “Oh! You would rather talk of her person than her mind, would you? Very well; I shall not attempt to deny Emma’s being pretty.” “Pretty! Say beautiful rather. Can you imagine any thing nearer perfect beauty than Emma altogether—face and figure? …Such an eye!—the true hazel eye—and so brilliant! Regular features, open countenance, with a complexion! Oh! what a bloom of full health, and such a pretty height and size; such a firm and upright figure. There is health, not merely in her bloom, but in her air, her head, her glance. …She is loveliness itself. Mr. Knightley, is not she?” “I have not a fault to find with her person,” he replied. “I think her all you describe. I love to look at her; and I will add this praise, that I do not think her personally vain. Considering how very handsome she is, she appears to be little occupied with it, her vanity lies another way.”


One of Emma’s tremendous struggles is her stopping and starting, her unwillingness to see something through -- her unconquered reading list, her unfinished sketches, her dilatory music practice. Now (looking at these) I don’t think Austen’s making a point that all young ladies need to pass some arbitrary bar of accomplishment (for instance, witness Lady Catherine’s shock over Lizzy’s list of accomplishments in P&P). The trouble in Emma’s case is in a lack of diligence. And that is tremendously important. Important enough that Austen highlights it (or the lack of it) with many of her feminine characters (Lydia, Georgiana, etc.) and with every single one of her heroines from Catherine to Anne.


And so we come to the inner character of our heroines. Now, with some of her quieter heroines, there’s also just the slightest possibility that they might occasionally seem like wall flowers... passively observing everything going on around them. But, while true strong integrity may not seem glamorous at times, ultimately it never goes unnoticed. And when strict adherence to solid principles and gentleness are combined, it’s a red-hot combination. Other characters may or may not like it, but they can't ignore it.


“Elinor, this eldest daughter whose advice was so effectual, possessed a strength of understanding, and coolness of judgment, which qualified her, though only nineteen, to be the counselor of her mother… She had an excellent heart;--her disposition was affectionate, and her feelings were strong; but she knew how to govern them…” Sense & Sensibility


“As soon as her eagerness could rest in silence, he was as happy to tell as she could be to listen, and a conversation followed almost as deeply interesting to her as to himself, though he had in fact nothing to dwell on but Fanny’s charms.—Fanny’s beauty of face and figure, Fanny’s graces of manner and goodness of heart were the exhaustless theme. The gentleness, modesty, and sweetness of her character were warmly expatiated on, that sweetness which makes so essential a part of every woman’s worth in the judgment of man, that though he sometimes loves where it is not, he can never believe it absent. Her temper he had good reason to depend on and to praise. He had often seen it tried. Was there one of the family, excepting Edmund, who had not in some way or other continually exercised her patience and forbearance? Her affections were evidently strong. To see her with her brother! What could more delightfully prove that the warmth of her heart was equal to its gentleness?—What could be more encouraging to a man who had her love in view? Then, her understanding was beyond every suspicion, quick and clear; and her manners were the mirror of her own modest and elegant mind. Nor was this all. Henry Crawford had too much sense not to feel the worth of good principles in a wife, though he was too little accustomed to serious reflection to know them by their proper name; but when he talked of her having such a steadiness and regularity of conduct, such a high notion of honour, and such an observance of decorum as might warrant any man in the fullest dependence on her faith and integrity, he expressed what was inspired by the knowledge of her being well principled and religious.” Henry Crawford speaking of Fanny in Mansfield Park


Strong minded and romantically passionate, Austen’s heroines are yet all dutiful to authority. The key and very interesting point being that it’s to the right and proper God-given authorities. Lizzy’s a good example. She defies Lady Catherine: “I am only resolved to act in that manner, which will, in my own opinion, constitute my happiness, without reference to you, or to any person so wholly unconnected with me”; yet, for all his failures as a father, she’s on pins and needles regarding Mr. Bennet’s permission. Anne submits (and does not blame) her father and Lady Russell for their initial hard counsel regarding her engagement, and then later (rather than just running off together or something equally terrible) Captain Wentworth and Anne solicit her father’s blessing once again. It’s very worth noting that it’s only her practically perfect heroines (i.e. Anne and Fanny) who justly and appropriately go up against their immediate authority figures. It’s a weighty and fearsome thing, never to be taken lightly, and it seems long years of genuine obedience generally have to be in place first.


The above actually ties into our next point, being that we, as human beings, tend to very easily get self-centered and self-absorbed -- the quick and bitter fruits of which being deeper blindness, selfishness, and ingratitude. Marianne is a prime example:

“Long before I was enough recovered to talk, I was perfectly able to reflect. I considered the past; I saw in my own behavior since the beginning of our acquaintance with him (Willoughby) last autumn, nothing but a series of imprudence towards myself, and want of kindness to others. I saw that my own feelings had prepared my sufferings, and that my want of fortitude under them had almost led me to the grave, My illness, I well knew, had been entirely brought on by myself, by such negligence of my own health, as I had felt even at the time to be wrong. Had I died,--it would have been self-destruction. I did not know my danger till the danger was removed; but with such feelings as these reflections gave me, I wonder at my recovery,--wonder that the very eagerness of my desire to live, to have time for atonement to my God, and to you all, did not kill me at once. …Whenever I looked towards the past, I saw some duty neglected, or some failing indulged. Every body seemed injured by me. The kindness, the unceasing kindness of Mrs. Jennings, I had repaid with ungrateful contempt. To the Middletons, the Palmers, the Steeles, to every common acquaintance even, I had been insolent and unjust; with an heart hardened against their merits, and a temper irritated by their very attention. ...But you (Elinor),--you above all, above my mother, had been wronged by me. I, and only I, knew your heart and its sorrows; yet, to what did it influence me?—not to any compassion that could benefit you or myself.—Your example was before me: but to what avail?—Was I more considerate of you and your comfort?—No;--not less when I knew you to be unhappy, than when I had believed you at ease, did I turn away from every exertion of duty or friendship; scarcely allowing sorrow to exist but with me, regretting only that heart which had deserted and wronged me, and leaving you, for whom I professed an unbounded affection, to be miserable for my sake.”


“Here ceased the flow of her self-reproving spirit; and Elinor, impatient to sooth, though too honest to flatter, gave her instantly that praise and support which her frankness and her contrition so well deserved. Marianne pressed her hand and replied,

“You are very good.—The future must be my proof. I have laid down my plan, and if I am capable of adhering to it—my feelings shall be governed and my temper improved. They shall no longer worry others, nor torture myself. I shall now live solely for my family. You, my mother, and Margaret, must henceforth be all the world to me; you will share my affections entirely between you. From you, from my home, I shall never again have the smallest incitement to move; and if I do mix in other society it will be only to shew that my spirit is humbled, my heart amended, and that I can practice the civilities, the lesser duties of life, with gentleness, and forbearance. As for Willoughby—to say that I shall soon or that I shall ever forget him, would be idle. His remembrance can be overcome by no change of circumstances or opinions. But it shall be regulated, it shall be checked by religion, by reason, by constant employment.”


There is the lesson of humility: Marianne learns it, along with Catherine, Lizzy, and Emma. True beauty is inseparably bound together with strength of character and true tenderness of heart -- knowing and acknowledging and facing up to faults and tenderly receptive to correction, which can be raw and stinging and hurt tremendously at times, but yet yields wondrous fruit.


And (even if they seem to have the humility lesson down) all of Austen’s heroines still have struggles. As included at the end of the quote from Marianne above, trying to run from a problem, to flee to different surroundings, is absolutely useless (witness the experience of Elinor, Marianne, Anne, Fanny in Portsmouth, even Jane Fairfax). This isn’t to say moving, or changing situations, can’t be extremely healthy and helpful and broadening at the very least. But when all is said and done, and the dust settles, we’re still the same people. And our problems have to be faced and dealt with head-on. And sometimes it’s a long struggle. And sometimes it comes over and over. It can be discouraging. So here we can see the call to action. To action and diligence (again!) and perseverance.


And here I think Austen highlights something incredibly beautiful. Along this road of ups and downs and twists and turns of life, we have friends. Friends and mentors; both new blossoming friendships and those that are tried-and-true. And each one is precious.


Austen’s heroines don’t isolate themselves. They’re friendly, even when it’s awkward (or simply frightening to take that first step). There are highly important sister friendships (which I’ve written on before here) and sometimes the mentor relationship is all tied in with the sister relationship: Jane/Lizzy/Mrs. Gardiner, Elinor/Marianne, Eleanor Tilney/Catherine, Mrs. Weston/Emma/Harriet, Anne/Lady Russell and Fanny/Susan, even Fanny and Miss Crawford, to a certain degree (not in the mentor sense, but in the ‘pushing yourself to be friendly because it seems to be the right thing to do sense’).


Some of the friendships have serious bumps in the road, but (perhaps with the exception of Miss Crawford) they’re all worth it. The time -- the occasional hurt -- the love that has to be poured out over and over. It’s all worth it.


And true friendship (in the family or otherwise) calls for loyalty -- in which every last one of Austen’s heroines provide stunning examples. ‘Tis true that standing on one’s principles (as discussed above) sometimes necessitates a hard break in a relationship (i.e. Fanny being sent to Portsmouth, Catherine breaking communication with the Thorpes, etc.), but, in the general course of events, fierce loyalty is of prime importance and is an awe-inspiring gift. The kind of loyalty that loves without question and yet would fight any number of battles with you to keep you on the right path.

So there are some of my thoughts on Austen's lovely heroines... 
What think ye? I'd love to hear! :)


Friday, February 19, 2016

Movie Review // The Magic of Ordinary Days with Keri Russell, Skeet Ulrich, and Mare Winningham ~ Part I


This movie. Somehow I always seem to forget just how much I love it. And then I rewatch it and solidly remember all over again. Sweet and straightforward and lovely and deep, it gets more richly beautiful each and every time.


(Also, this post is seriously screen cap heavy. Just so you know. Consider ye’ve been duly forewarned. ;))


The official summary’s not tremendously great and (to avoid spoilers and since the plotline itself is fairly simple) I won’t go into a lot of detail, but here’s for my own short summary: During WWII, cultured, well-educated Livy Dunn becomes pregnant out of wedlock and then engages (at the behest of her father) in an arranged marriage with Ray Singleton, a young farmer in a small rural community. The conflict then unfolds around their growing relationship -- slowly developing on a truly daily level; entwined too with the lives of two dear friends of Livy's and also a young POW.


Just how skillfully that’s all woven together and comes flashing out in the climax never fails to surprise and delight me. Incidentally, I’ve also seen the extras and they’re pretty good. It’s always nice when they interview the actors on set in costume; and the major actors all seemed fairly type cast, too -- which is fun.


Before we get into some of the reasons I love it, given the premise (and because it’s something I personally would have really liked having before I first watched it), I’ll note exactly what it does and does not have content-wise so you get an idea of how they handled all those potentially iffy things. 


First off, there are no dressing scenes, no ‘bedroom’ scenes, and NO flashbacks (as in flashing back in any way to the father of the baby). Once Livy’s at the farmhouse, it shows her waking up in her room a couple times wearing a very modest, sleeveless nightgown. It shows when she goes into labor (i.e. there’s evidence of her water breaking) and there are several gentle kisses. That’s it. :)



The dresses etc. are gorgeous, but I have so many things to highlight on that front that I’m splitting all my thoughts on it into another post, which should be coming along shortly! (Edit: you can now see Part II here. :))


With a relaxed and leisurely pace, the storytelling throughout is incredibly understated. It always amazes me how so many of the plot points seem vaguely immaterial (i.e. like the installation of the telephone) and then all of a sudden -- like the pieces of a jigsaw puzzle -- every last thing is smoothly and perfectly in place, somersaulting into the pounding intensity of the climax. 


Speaking of the climax itself, Livy is so smart there! (No extreme spoilers), but I’m always agog at how fast she thinks on her feet – managing all the pressure and emotions involved and figuring a way out of the mess without leaving a single trail anywhere. It's brilliant, I tell you.


And I love how the whole running theme of learning how to be a true and loyal friend comes flashing out -- pulling everything powerfully and perfectly together.



Along with this, the contrast between the two sets of sisters is excellent: with one older sister blithely enticing her younger sister to live for herself, look out for herself, etc. -- and then another older sister wisely foreseeing calamity yet still determined to stand by her sister, seeing her all the way through to the end.


The second pair of sisters here. Flory (the younger sister in pink) is sweet and fun and bubbly.


While Rose is so lovely and caring and straightforward and gracious.


(Rose actually reminds me a LOT of one of my very dearest friends. :) Except my friend’s the married one with a houseful of beautiful and very busy small children. ;))


I also love how Livy’s whole transformation is distilled down in her treatment of Franklin -- with her initial hesitancy and following disgust all the way to caring for him and finally eagerly hauling him round as a safeguard.


As to the dialogue…


Often running with tension, it’s straightforward and full to brimming with exactly the things you would actually say.


Ordinary, everyday words speaking of raw hurt and pain. Words strong and sometimes fumbling, dealing with the daily things like seedtime and harvest that are part of life and keep carrying on regardless. Plain words speaking of life, with all its brokenness and wavering hesitation. Plain, strong words speaking not ‘of’ life, but life itself -- with a love that’s willing to step into the trenches and get more than its hands dirty. 


Livy’s fears, her agonized longings, her uncertainty, her frustration, and then her final response to love are all poignantly and vividly rendered.



Ray’s gentleness is often highlighted (which is absolutely as it should be), but what always strikes me, too, is how just he is. 


Just in the Biblical sense.


He does what Joseph did (with the hefty and important exception, of course, that Mary wasn’t really in the position she seemed to be in, and also Mary and Joseph did actually seem to love and desire each other, but -- you know -- from the point of view of gossiping society at large). 


Joseph was given divine revelation and Ray decides to marry because he felt it might be God’s will; upright men stepping into a sweltering situation that was none of their doing. And what’s more, assuming all the potential blame, shouldering it. Which could gall a man’s pride. But it’s done without hesitation. 


He covers her completely. It’s love. Real and tangible and rock hard and solid. 


And in stepping in -- in winning her, wooing her in spite of herself -- he also, of necessity, opens himself up to vulnerability -- to hurt. 


But he does it anyway. 


And he is hurt. And in that hurt, finally opens her heart and eyes. 




It's absolutely beautiful and amazing.


For me, this movie took a while (quite a while), but -- still undeterred and very much in keeping with its character -- it quietly and insistently worked its way into my very tip top favorites. It’s one of those stories that gets into you. And I love it to utter bits and pieces!!

Tell me! Have you seen this movie and what did you think?




(Reviewed for Rose’s 40’s Week and Miss Laurie’s Period Drama Challenge 2016.)
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